now gaining nam style, the rapper behind it is expected to perform at a concert president obama is to attend. ♪ gangnam style ♪ >> back in 2004, the rapper psy is his name cursed the united states calling for a slow and painful death of american soldiers and their families. so, does he deserve such a privilege of playing for the president? mother of mark alan lee, the first navy seal killed in iraq and mighty warriors, debby lee joins us this morning. thank you for coming on our show this morning to talk about this. >> you bet, thank you so much for having me. >> clayton: when you first heard about this white house christmas special going to be airing on tnt. four days before christmas and the president will be in attendance. what was your response? >> i was disgusted. to know that an individual who had called, as you said, for the slow and painful death of our troops and their families, is in a place of honor and performing before our president was just disgusting to me. how do we allow that to happen and how do we choose those as role models that get that honor? this is someone